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发表于 2002-11-13 02:56:58 | 只看该作者 回帖奖励 |倒序浏览 |阅读模式
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this followed is someone else sent to me. I'm shaking deeply by it.I've never believed that,there are just only one person is your true love. But I think for most of us, it's very sparsely that to meet the right person at the right state. And fall in love is not only to feel the deep love, to learn how to love is more important thing
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<br>A rather inspirational piece.. read on...
<br>Chance or Choice
<br>When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place at the right time, that's CHANCE.
<br>When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's CHANCE.
<br>Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice. That's also a CHANCE.
<br>The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether
<br>you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling. If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that's not a chance. That's CHOICE.
<br>When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's CHOICE. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's CHOICE.
<br>Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by CHANCE. But true love that lasts is truly a CHOICE. A CHOICE that we make.
<br>Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this: Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen."
<br>I do believe that soulmates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the CHOICE if you're going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soulmates by chance, but loving and staying with our oulmate is still a CHOICE we have to make. We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love... BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly... "There is no tomorrow, only today."
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发表于 2002-11-18 06:53:39 | 只看该作者

Really agree with this sentence:

fall in love is not only to feel the deep love, to learn how to love is more important thing ...
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<br>And it's so difficult to meeting a right person in right time at right place...
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<br>However, this is the life ...
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learn how to look on love 小田 2002-11-13
Really agree with this sentence: 偶见 2002-11-18
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